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Falling Back in Love with Being Human

Kai Cheng Thom (CA)

Regular price $23.00

CLEO'S PICK

This book is so timely for me because I'm working on a project with love letters. Kai's poetry rings through each letter, followed by a prompt that asks for us to take a moment and care for ourselves and others. I am so in awe of her compassion. I don't think I could write a love letter to people who hate me. Reading this book wants me to get to a place in my life where I can.  -CP

A transformative collection of intimate and lyrical love letters that offer a path toward compassion, forgiveness, and self-acceptance.

What happens when we imagine loving the people—and the parts of ourselves—that we do not believe are worthy of love?

Kai Cheng Thom grew up a Chinese Canadian transgender girl in a hostile world. As an activist, counselor, conflict mediator, and spiritual healer, she's always pursued the same deeply personal mission: to embrace the revolutionary belief that every human being, no matter how hateful or horrible, is intrinsically sacred.

But then Kai Cheng found herself in a crisis of faith, overwhelmed by the violence with which people treated one another, and barely clinging to the values and dreams she'd built her life around: justice, hope, love, and healing. Rather than succumb to despair and cynicism, she gathered all her rage and grief and took one last leap of faith: she wrote. She wrote letters that were prayers, or maybe poems, or perhaps magic spells. She wrote to the outcasts and runaways she calls her kin. She wrote to flawed but nonetheless lovable men, to people with good intentions who harm their own, to racists and transphobes seemingly beyond saving. What emerged was a blueprint for falling back in love with being human.

Paperback | 176 pages | 4.87" x 6.87"